I’m in a long distance relationship and my boyfriend doesn’t understand that him being a lot older than my friends makes my friends feel uncomfortable when I bring him around. He also doesn’t get the concept of friends time and boyfriend time. He thinks that it’s stupid of me to think that if I bring him around when I’m hanging out with friends or whatever, it’ll be like I’m occupied by his presence and won’t hang out with my friends. Yes it’s true that they can get to know him since he’s a cool guy but I want to keep things separate. I don’t know what to do because I love him but this is not what I signed up for.

I feel exhausted always arguing about the same shit and I feel no energy to try and fix it anymore.